Vandaag viert de Orthodoxe Kerk Vergevingszondag
(ook wel genoemd: Zondag van de Verdrijving uit het Paradijs)
Morgen begint de Grote Vasten
“Maar indien gij den mensen hun misdaden niet vergeeft, zo zal ook uw Vader uw misdaden niet vergeven.”
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Forgiveness stands at the very center of Christian faith and of Christian life because Christianity itself is, above all, the religion of forgiveness. God forgives us, and His forgiveness is in Christ, His Son, whom He sends to us so that by sharing in His humanity we may share in His love and be truly reconciled with God. Indeed, Christianity has no other content but love. And it is primarily the renewal of that love, a growth in it, that we seek in Great Lent, in fasting and prayer, in the entire spirit and the entire effort of that season. Thus, truly forgiveness is both the beginning of, and the proper condition for, the Lenten season.
One may ask, however: Why should I perform this rite when I have no “enemies?” Why should I ask forgiveness from people who have done nothing to me, and whom I hardly know? To ask these questions is to misunderstand the Orthodox teaching concerning forgiveness. It is true that open enmity, personal hatred, real animosity may be absent from our life, though if we experience them, it may be easier for us to repent, for these feelings openly contradict Divine commandments. But the Church reveals to us that there are much subtler ways of offending Divine Love. These are indifference, selfishness, lack of interest in other people, of any real concern for them – in short, that wall which we usually erect around ourselves, thinking that by being “polite” and “friendly” we fulfill God’s commandments. The rite of forgiveness is so important precisely because it makes us realize – be it only for one minute – that our entire relationship to other men is wrong, makes us experience that encounter of one child of God with another, of one person created by God with another, makes us feel that mutual “recognition” which is so terribly lacking in our cold and dehumanized world.
On that unique evening, listening to the joyful Paschal hymns we are called to make a spiritual discovery: to taste of another mode of life and relationship with people, of life whose essence is love. We can discover that always and everywhere Christ, the Divine Love Himself, stands in the midst of us, transforming our mutual alienation into brotherhood. As I advance towards the other, as the other comes to me – we begin to realize that it is Christ who brings us together by His love for both of us.
And because we make this discovery – and because this discovery is that of the Kingdom of God itself: the Kingdom of Peace and Love, of reconciliation with God and, in Him, with all that exists – we hear the hymns of that Feast, which once a year “opens to us the doors of Paradise.” We know why we shall fast and pray, what we shall seek during the long Lenten pilgrimage.
Bron:
ocafs.oca.orgForgiveness Sunday: the day on which we acquire the power to make our fasting – true fasting; our effort – true effort; our reconciliation with God – true reconciliation.
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind uit 2004 is ook weer zo’n ingewikkelde film. De fantasie (je ex letterlijk uit je geheugen laten wissen door een stel nerds) is natuurlijk heel aardig. Doordat het geheugen van de hoofdpersoon selectief gewist wordt en we telkens teruggaan in het (gemanipuleerde!) verleden, ontstaat er net als in verhalen over tijdreizen, een ‘merkwaardige lus’: in werkelijkheid kan het niet, maar in de werkelijkheid die film heet kan het weer wel. Eternal Sunshine moet eigenlijk een paar keer gezien worden om het scenario tot zijn recht te laten komen. Ik kan me niet herinneren dat ik ooit in een film het thema boy meets girl zo verrassend belicht heb gezien. Maar misschien ben ik nu een stukje uit mijn geheugen kwijt…
